We associate Christmas with family gatherings, exchanging gifts, good food, and for some people, the birth of Jesus. I remember as a young boy getting ready for Christmas. My mother would prepare food that could be frozen well in advance. It started with meat pies. Then there were the desserts: biscuits, doughnuts and squares. My brothers, sister and I particularly liked helping her make the desserts because we could lick the dishes clean. We also had to decorate the Christmas tree! 🎄

On Christmas Eve, everyone put their presents under the tree.  We had a light meal in the evening, followed by family games. We loved playing cards. Then it was time to get ready for Midnight Mass. Mass was always a big celebration with all the typical Christmas carols. Once mass was over, we’d rush home for Christmas Eve.  It was time to open presents, share Mum’s good food and play games until 4 or 5 in the morning.

I can’t imagine Christmas without family.

Unfortunately, for many refugees, they have been separated from their families for years, so they are unable to rejoice with their brothers, sisters or parents on special occasions.  Such occasions as Christmas, birthdays, etc. are particularly difficult when we are separated from our families.  But living day after day for years on end separated from one’s family only comes to weigh heavily on a person’s life.

We tend to take our families for granted.  They are precious.  I would invite you this year during your family Christmas celebrations to take a moment and say how grateful you are for the people around you.  I would also invite you to say a prayer for refugees who are separated from their families.

Norbert Piché, Country Director
Jesuit Refugee Service Canada